| Theme | Subtheme | N |
| Growth | Learned from previous relationships | 5 |
| Resiliency | 4 | |
| Generativity | 2 | |
| Woman’s Theme | Getting to know | 3 |
| Whole person | 2 | |
| Spirituality and intuition | 2 | |
| Either trust or a lack of trust | 3 | |
| Women’s commitment | 2 | |
| Negative Aspects of Sexuality | Participant cheating | 1 |
| Partner cheating | 1 | |
| Preoccupation of the partner | 2 | |
| IPV | 1 | |
| Being deaf | Deaf culture | 3 |
| Bicultural life | 2 | |
| Deaf versus hearing partners | 5 | |
| Intimacy through four senses | 4 | |
| Visual communication during sex | 4 | |
| Exploration |
| 4 |
| Sex talk |
| 4 |