Question: Which of the following best describes your feelings?

Sample: N = 100

1) Secure―I find it relatively easy to get close to others and am comfortable depending on them and having them depend on me. I don’t often worry about being abandoned or about someone get-ting too close to me.

60 (60%)

2) Avoidant Insecure―I am somewhat uncomfortable being close to others; I find it difficult to trust them, difficult to allow myself to depend on them. I am nervous when anyone gets too close, and often, love partners want me to be more intimate than I feel comfort-table being.

28 (28%)

3) Anxious/Ambivalent Insecure―I find that others are reluctant to get as close as I would like. I often worry that my partner doesn’t really love me or won’t want to stay with me. I want to merge completely with another person, and this desire sometimes scares people away.

12 (12%)