Factor 1. Invading spaces |
6) Getting what you want from your partner due to fatigue, getting it due to his/her burnout |
10) Monopolising the use of common spaces or elements |
15) Interrupting, not listening, not answering, manipulating the message |
17) Reading messages or e-mails without permission or listening to telephone conversations |
18) Not expressing his/her feelings, often shutting down emotionally |
19) Making excuses to justify himself/herself |
20) Cheating, lying, not honouring what has been agreed |
22) Calling fidelity into question |
23) Threatening to leave the relationship and have an affair with someone else |
24) Making his/her partner feel sorry for him/her |
Factor 2. Creating insecurity |
1) Frightening the partner through his/her tone of voice, glance or gestures |
4) Not respecting his/her partner's opinions and rights |
5) Not respecting his/her partner's feelings |
13) Creating insecurity or feelings of guilt by insinuating or manipulating emotions |
14) Getting angry or making surly or aggressive comments unexpectedly without knowing the reason |
Factor 3. Confinement to a traditional role |
12) Discouraging his/her partner, making studying or working harder for him/her |
16) Seeing his/her partner as a little boy/girl who needs to be cared for or protected |
21) Neglecting his/her domestic responsibilities |
Factor 4. Exercising control |
7) Controlling his/her partner's money or expenses |
8) Controlling his/her partner's schedules, meetings or activities |
9) Complaining at his/her partner so that he/she goes out or relate to his/her family and friends |
Factor 5. Underestimating |
2) Making important decisions without taking his/her partner's opinion into account |
3) Change decisions made by his/her partner |
25) Downplaying the importance of duties or activities performed by his/her partner |