14.2. Your partner gets angry or makes surly or aggressive comments unexpectedly and without your knowing the reason

15.1. You have interrupted, not listened, not answering or you have manipulated the message

15.2. Your partner has interrupted you, has not listened you, has not answering to you or has manipulated the message

16.1. Do you think your partner is like a child that needs to be cared for or protected

16.2. Your partner treats you like a child that needs to be cared for or protected

17.1. You have read the messages or emails that they send to your partner without their permission, or you listen to telephone conversations without them knowing

17.2. Do you think your partner reads messages or emails without your permission

18.1. You don’t express your own feelings, often you close emotionally

18.2. Your partner does not express their own feelings, often closes emotionally

19.1. You make excuses to justify yourself (“I didn’t want to,” “I didn’t realize,” “it was the fault of my obligations”)

19.2. Your partner makes excuses to justify himself (“I didn’t want to,” “I didn’t realize,” “it was the fault of my obligations”)

20.1. You cheat, lie or do not comply with partner agreements

20.2. Your partner cheats you, lies or does not comply with partner agreements

21.1. You disregard the responsibilities or domestic tasks

21.2. Your partner disregards domestic responsibilities or tasks

22.1. You question the fidelity of your partner

22.2. Your partner questions your fidelity

23.1. Your threats to leave the relationship or to have an affair with another person

23.2. Your partner threatens you to leave the relationship or to have an affair with another person

24.1. You make your partner feel sorry for you (“without you I don’t know what to do”, “if you’re not there, something bad will happen to me”).

24.2. Your partner makes you feel sorry for him/her

25.1. You downplay the duties or activities that your partner performs

25.2. Your partner downplays the duties or activities you do