1.1. You have frightened the partner through your tone of voice, glance or gestures

1.2. Your partner has frightened you through his/her tone of voice, glance or gestures

2.1. You have made important decisions without taking the opinion of your partner into account

2.2. Your partner has made important decisions without taking your opinion into account

3.1. You have changed decisions made by his/her partner

3.2. Your partner has changed decisions that you have made

4.1. You have not respected your partner’s opinions and rights

4.2. Your partner has not respected your opinions and rights

5.1. You have not respected your partner’s feelings

5.2. Your partner has not respected your feelings

6.1. You have got what you want from your partner due to fatigue, getting it due to his/her burnout

6.2. Your partner has got what he wanted from you due to fatigue

7.1. You control your partner’s money or expenses

7.2. Your partner controls your money or expenses

8.1. You control your partner’s schedules, meetings or activities

8.2. Your partner controls your schedules, meetings or activities

9.1. You complain to your partner because he/she goes out or relate to his/her family and friends

9.2. Your partner complains because you go out or relate to your family or friends

10.1. You tend to monopolize the use of common spaces or elements (sofa, TV remote, computer, car or motorcycle...)

10.2. Your partner tends to monopolize the use of common spaces or elements

11.1. (Answer only if you are a straight woman) Does your partner think that your main role in life is to be a mother?

11.2. (Answer only if you are a straight man) Do you think that the main role in your partner’s life is to be a mother?

12.1. You discourage your partner or make it difficult for him/her to study or work

12.2. Your partner discourages you or makes it difficult for you to study or work

13.1. You cause insecurities or feelings of guilt in your partner by insinuating or manipulating emotions

13.2. Your partner causes you insecurities or feelings of guilt in your partner by insinuating or manipulating emotions

14.1. You get angry or make surly or aggressive comments unexpectedly and without your partner knowing the reason