1.1. You have frightened the partner through your tone of voice, glance or gestures |
1.2. Your partner has frightened you through his/her tone of voice, glance or gestures |
2.1. You have made important decisions without taking the opinion of your partner into account |
2.2. Your partner has made important decisions without taking your opinion into account |
3.1. You have changed decisions made by his/her partner |
3.2. Your partner has changed decisions that you have made |
4.1. You have not respected your partner’s opinions and rights |
4.2. Your partner has not respected your opinions and rights |
5.1. You have not respected your partner’s feelings |
5.2. Your partner has not respected your feelings |
6.1. You have got what you want from your partner due to fatigue, getting it due to his/her burnout |
6.2. Your partner has got what he wanted from you due to fatigue |
7.1. You control your partner’s money or expenses |
7.2. Your partner controls your money or expenses |
8.1. You control your partner’s schedules, meetings or activities |
8.2. Your partner controls your schedules, meetings or activities |
9.1. You complain to your partner because he/she goes out or relate to his/her family and friends |
9.2. Your partner complains because you go out or relate to your family or friends |
10.1. You tend to monopolize the use of common spaces or elements (sofa, TV remote, computer, car or motorcycle...) |
10.2. Your partner tends to monopolize the use of common spaces or elements |
11.1. (Answer only if you are a straight woman) Does your partner think that your main role in life is to be a mother? |
11.2. (Answer only if you are a straight man) Do you think that the main role in your partner’s life is to be a mother? |
12.1. You discourage your partner or make it difficult for him/her to study or work |
12.2. Your partner discourages you or makes it difficult for you to study or work |
13.1. You cause insecurities or feelings of guilt in your partner by insinuating or manipulating emotions |
13.2. Your partner causes you insecurities or feelings of guilt in your partner by insinuating or manipulating emotions |
14.1. You get angry or make surly or aggressive comments unexpectedly and without your partner knowing the reason |