Women

Men

χ2

He/she is not involved

Perpetration

Victimisation

Mutual

He/she is not involved

Perpetration

Victimisation

Mutual

INVADING SPACES

35.8

11.0

9.1

44.1

49.1

9.7

13.3

27.9

18.37***

6) Getting what you want from your partner due to fatigue, getting it due to his/her burnout

75.5

10.1

6.1

8.4

78.7

7.0

9.0

5.3

10.31**

10) Monopolising the use of common spaces or elements

84.1

5.0

5.9

5.0

88.0

5.0

4.5

2.5

5.42

15) Interrupting, not listening, not answering, manipulating the message

68.3

8.2

7.8

15.8

73.1

6.7

10.4

9.8

11.19**

17) Reading messages or e-mails without permission or listening to telephone conversations

77.9

10.6

5.5

5.9

81.2

3.9

10.9

3.9

29.02***

18) Not expressing his/her feelings, often shutting down emotionally

65.4

9.5

14.6

10.5

69.2

12.3

10.4

8.1

8.21*

19) Making excuses to justify himself/herself

73.6

8.0

10.0

8.4

75.1

9.2

7.0

8.7

3.37

20) Cheating, lying, not honouring what has been agreed

87.7

2.3

7.8

2.1

85.7

3.6

8.4

2.2

2.15

22) Calling fidelity into question

84.6

6.2

5.1

4.1

80.1

7.8

8.7

3.4

8.78

23) Threatening to leave the relationship and have an affair with someone else

92.2

3.6

2.9

1.3

89.4

3.1

6.4

1.1

10.42**

24) Making his/her partner feel sorry for him/her

87.9

2.6

8.0

1.4

84.3

3.9

9.0

2.8

5.66

CREATING INSECURITY

59.6

15.6

5.7

19.1

67.3

6.1

9.1

17.6

13.35**

1) Frightening the partner through his/her tone of voice, glance or gestures

83.6

6.4

3.6

6.4

90.8

1.4

4.2

3.6

19.03***

4) Not respecting his/her partner’s opinions and rights

82.5

5.9

5.5

6.1

83.5

3.9

7.6

5.0

4.81

5) Not respecting his/her partner’s feelings

86.9

2.5

5.9

4.6

86.6

2.2

8.1

3.1

3.78

13) Creating insecurity or feelings of guilt by insinuating or manipulating emotions

82.0

5.6

7.6

4.8

84.6

2.5

8.4

4.5

6.08

14) Getting angry or making surly or aggressive comments unexpectedly without knowing the reason

78.9

10.1

6.4

4.7

84.0

3.4

9.0

3.6

19.22***

CONFINEMENT TO A TRADITIONAL ROLE

65.2

10.3

11.8

12.7

60.1

12.7

5.5

12.7

6.35

12) Discouraging his/her partner, making studying or working harder for him/her

95.2

0.8

3.6

0.4

92.4

1.7

4.8

1.1

6.17

16) Seeing his/her partner as a child who needs to be cared for or protected

73.0

14.8

5.4

6.9

78.7

10.6

4.8

5.9

5.48

21) Neglecting his/her domestic responsibilities

81.7

3.3

12.2

2.8

88.8

5.3

3.9

2.0

24.34***

EXERCISING CONTROL

72.6

6.6

5.8

15.1

81.2

3.6

3.6

11.5

5.83

7) Controlling his/her partner’s money or expenses

91.4

4.0

2.2

2.3

92.2

3.4

2.5

2.0

0.73

8) Controlling his/her partner’s schedules, meetings or activities

80.0

3.0

6.3

10.7

86.0

3.1

5.0

5.9

8,97*

9) Complaining at his/her partner so that he/she goes out or relate to his/her family and friends

88.3

2.2

7.0

2.5

90.8

1.7

5.9

1.7

1.90

UNDERESTIMATING

64.1

9.1

6.8

20.1

72.1

3.0

7.3

17.6

8,21*

2) Making important decisions without taking his/her partner’s opinion into account

71.9

7.3

6.0

14.8

70.3

3.6

8.7

17.4

10.41**

3) Change decisions made by his/her partner

85.2

5.4

4.5

5.0

87.7

1.7

6.4

4.2

11.17**

25) Downplaying the importance of duties or activities performed by his/her partner

85.9

3.4

6.9

3.9

86.8

3.4

6.7

3.1

0.50