The way of being scolded | Mean score |
1) Scold emotionally and according to parental ideology |
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Yelling | 24.4 |
Scold on a whim | 27.0 |
2) Scold at length |
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Scold at length and persistently | 22.5 |
Bring up issues other than the matter at hand | 22.9 |
3) Scold by comparing with others |
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Scold by comparing with siblings or other children | 23.1 |
Scold by comparing the person being scolded to when they were younger | 22.3 |
4) Scold indirectly |
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Scold sarcastically | 24.7 |
Scold in a roundabout way | 26.7 |
5) Scold commandingly |
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Scold in a commanding tone of voice | 25.6 |
6) One-sided denial |
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Deny completely | 24.1** |
Scold without listening to what the scolded person has to say | 22.1 |
7) Child belittling |
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Treat like a small child and look down upon | 23.5 |
8) Good way of scolding |
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Scold by persuasion | 25.4 |
Scold by not comparing with others | 24.9 |
Scold by defining the reason for scolding | 25.1 |
Scold calmly, without yelling | 25.3 |
Scold only for the original reason | 25.8 |
Scold for a short time | 25.7 |
Scold while simultaneously acknowledging good points | 26.5 |
Scold after listening to what the scolded person has to say | 25.7 |
Scold by providing advice at the same time | 25.2 |