| Intimacy Adaptability | Disengaged | Separated | Connected | Enmeshed |
| Rigid | Extreme type | Middle type | Middle type | Extreme type |
| Structured | Middle type | Balanced type | Balanced type | Middle type |
| Flexible | Middle type | Balanced type | Balanced type | Middle type |
| Chaotic | Extreme type | Middle type | Middle type | Extreme type |